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Green toxicity
In each of us perhaps there lies an equal measure of evil and the good. Maybe it is not about one human being being devilish and another angelic. It is just all about a matter of choice, the efforts one takes to just think twice before wanting to disturb/ destroy another life.
Yet each of us could have individual eccentricities.
And if we watch our journey close enough, perhaps we do end up identifying/ grouping types than individuals.
And one such trait you can identify of types is what I self-named the Green toxic syndrome.
You should never be angry with the types who belong to the pitiful syndrome, they are to be pitied because they suffer within more than you would at their caustic comments.
They are good otherwise except that they cannot bear anyone achieve much even if they already have or yet to achieve...
They cold shoulder congratulations with a reason outside of your capacity for whatever success you meet with...
Across the years You come across types from the category in almost all ages and all categories...
They typically practise...
1. cold shouldering your success attributing it to any cause outside you except your potential.
2. slighting your problem and making you feel bad and that you caused it to happen
3. Bad mouthing you especially by spreading false rumours about anything that could help malign you
4. Trying to make you feel bad by isolating you and convincing others to do the same by vouching for working toward making you stronger and independent.
5. Trying to provoke you by indulging in cheap immature gestures and comments.
6. Trying to humiliate you before a crowd hoping it would erode your confidence.
7. Mixing up a positive and negative such as "professionally good, personally bad"
7. And they try to hide the green toxicity under a garb of it was all to make you strong.
Through it all, you may have to bear the pain of watching those you trusted were friends dwindle to just statistical numbers on your contact list.
But never hate them, they suffer more within of the toxicity of that green coloured trait.
The best way is to ignore, avoid and let go.
just remember whatever they may say or do, however they choose to malign, only the one who created you can choose to give or take away the riches of your mind and heart.
And remember you just dont have to prove anything to anybody.
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