You just know when one is smitten green when…
They suddenly project you as inadequate…
They try to demoralize you by isolating you…
They try pulling in others whom they see as support systems to isolate you…
They try making you feel something is wrong with you…
They try increasing decibels of fun to unnerve ....
They try slighting your problem..
They belittle you before others…
And then make it look as if all they wanted was help you…
The best way to handle is ignore them even though it initially hurts if they were ones you trusted or saw in good stead..
Ignore them but do not give them the comfort of your silence…
Say hello to them, smile, crack a joke especially when they least expect you to…
But in mind and heart keep them at bay…
Once bitten be twice shy…
Remember you lose nothing…
They just didn’t deserve or value what you sincerely offered…
What is not worth is to be kept not near but at a distance.
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